A New Yorker in Exile

A self exiled New Yorker left to explore the world on his own... okay left to explore the world with some help from a few friends... but they aren't New Yorkers. My latest pursuits: home brewing, discrete mathematics, correspondence chess, wine tasting, house cleaning, dog walking, writing more (hence why I'm updating this blog again) and the usual hey what can the world teach me today.

27 November 2005

Teenager 0-- Adult 1

In Saturdays WSJ there was an article about how parents read their kids blogs and/or online postings to see what they are up to. It sounds sneaking but lets think about this, do teenagers have a fair expectation of privacy on the internet-- should they? No and no. As a defender of the First amendment I believe everyone should have access to everything (within reason of course, I wouldn't look too kindly on our government for selling secrets) and the mentallity applies to my sisters privilege of having internet access. Where the buck stops is when it starts to interfere with her homework and she is outlandishly miss-representing herself, which could lead to her endangering herself or others. But one thing she is starting to learn, is the waves she surfs, who she surfs with, and when she does it, falls heavily under the scrutiny of the patriarch and computer guru of the house-- Me. But what happens when I am too consumed in other things that the monitoring of her activities slip through paper thin cracks-- and I mean paper thin. Therefore I have started to research how to restrict her access based on time, and content.
Another interesting thing in the article is the comment that parents are usually less tech savvy then there opponent. Well in this case the table is turned and I will end up with a system where at a flick of a switch her world could become internet-less. And at the same time she could be ticketed for speeding on the information highway.

I would like to purpose, unless it already exists, a forum with tips and tricks on how to make the internet accessible but safe. As I taunt my sister-- one hand giveth and the other hand taketh.

Jesse

P.S. Let me know if a forum or website already exists, or if you would like to help/add to a forum I could host.

1 Comments:

Blogger Sailorgrrl said...

Get her..I'm am behind you all the way. The news is flooded with horry stories of adults taking advantage of teenagers online. Couple that with the typical teenager, "I am invincible complex", and you have a recipe for a dangerous diaster. I am reminded of the words I dreaded to hear as a teenager but repeat as an adult mantra, "It's for your own good."
Charissa

12/29/2005 12:57 PM  

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